You must be wondering what kind of a topic this must be. How could words probably affect your life and living, right? Wrong! You would be amazed if you know exactly what kind of impact the words you choose to speak can have on your life as a whole. Read on to know more…..
The word, ‘try’
Let us take the word, ‘TRY’, for instance. Have you ever known someone who actually DOES something when they say they would try? This ‘trying to do something’ in itself is a minor deception in a way!
Someone who says they would try to drop in at your party never actually do. Likewise, one who promises to try to return your call on time mostly never will! Someone who has promised to try to lose weight or kick some addictive habit is only lying to himself. He will most probably never get to doing it. Hence, you either do something or you do not – there can never be anything like ‘trying’ to do!
So how do we get rid of this devil who ‘tries’ his best to ruin our lives? How do we stop cheating ourselves and get going with our lives to experience that success we so deserve?
The very first step we can take towards eliminating the problem forever is to become aware of how often we are using it. Very often, we do not even realize how we are going about preparing to cheat our own selves! Once we acknowledge the fault, we will automatically go ahead to deal with it effectively.
The word, ‘should’
The other little evil devil is the word, ‘should’. We quite often think of what we ‘should’ be doing, but again, never really get to doing it. For instance, we may state that we ‘should’ be starting studying for the exams soon. But instead of actually starting studies right away, we usually use this ‘should’ as a method to avoid starting our studies on time.
Now how do you get out of this one? Just like in the previous case, you first have to acknowledge the existence of the problem. You would do very to replace the word ‘should’ by something a lot more proactive, like ‘need to’. That itself will create a sense of urgency in your mind, to undertake that particular task.
The word, ‘cannot’
The word, ‘cannot’ is yet another one of those in your everyday vocabulary that has the potential to give you a tremendous amount of trouble! This word, ‘cannot’, immediately gives your subconscious the feel of failure. This again, actually translates into action and ends up going against you.
If you find yourself using the word, ‘cannot’, too often, do not worry. Every problem has a solution, so does this one. Maybe you could start using the statement, ‘will not’, instead. That is definitely not so negative, so you would be giving your subconscious the impression that you are not doing something because you merely do not want to do it, not because you cannot do it.
The other advantage of using ‘will not’ is that you can always easily shift to ‘will’ whenever you feel you are fit to handle the issue.
Conclusion
The above analysis shows us how important words are in our lives and how appropriate usage of the same can change our lives for the better. Hypnotherapy can play a vital role in molding your thought patterns, thereby making a happier and more successful person of you!
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